The Duality in Life
Do you ever notice the duality in life? Not from a deeply philosophical, sit-under-a-tree-and-rethink-existence kind of lens. I mean from the vaguest, most everyday lens possible. The kind that sneaks up on you in those oddly specific contradictions you carry around. Lately, I’ve been thinking about this a lot, and to be honest, it has made me so much more self-aware. Take the most basic example: me. In general, I do think I’m an empathetic and kind person. Yes, yes, I know, very noble of me to say that about myself...I’ve clearly been attending narcissism 101. But morally, I do believe judging people is wrong. And yet, I judge. Sometimes on the most absurd, unnecessary, almost diabolically unserious things. My mind just seems to run on some mysterious fuel that I did not approve of. And that, to me, is one of the simplest forms of duality. There is the person I believe myself to be, and then there is the person my mind occasionally reveals in fragments. The interesting part, though...